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Teaching Work Ethic To Teenagers and Children

Tuesday, March 31st, 2009

Question from a reader:”Why do we have such lousy service at fast food stores, department stores and any other service store that is still in business?”

 

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As the photo above shows, not all service is done poorly.

My answer is that because nobody takes the time to teach children (who become teenagers) the basic work ethic.  The deal is that if you want to make money, you need to provide a service or product for somebody so they will want to do business with you again.  There is no magic to the formula but television, radio, the Internet and general yuck yuck attitude of people (and yes, parents, I am talking to you for not taking the time to teach your kids this stuff) have created many generations of people who are only working their job until they sell their screenplay, get hired as a top model, sell enough marijuana to quit their dayjob, etc. 

I am not talking about every child or teenager.  There are a lot of good and even great people who are working at fast food windows, electronic and department stores who take the time and give great service.  The problem is that when you have mostly mediocre to lousy service you tend reinforce the bad. 

The reason I am not ragging on adults is because most adults who are working can still force a fake smile and realize that in their most jaded nightmares that they still need to work.  You will see them trying very hard to do whatever it takes to keep themselves working and gainfully employed in our New Depression economy.

Folks, take five minutes and start getting your kids to say “please” and “thank you”.  Tell them to ask what they can do to help their customers or take the time to read their job scripts and make them their own with a positive attitude.  Life is more than videogames, skateboarding and whoring it up.  Well, maybe not much more but come on, gang, we need to ramp up our service industry a notch or twelve.  We are in a Depression and there is a lot of competition for work.  Employers will start laying off the slackers and problem children soon enough if they haven’t done so already.

So, to answer your question, the problem has been there for awhile, it just is more annoying when the economy is lousy and you have to part with hard earned or scarce money and aren’t getting service for the service that you are supposedly paying extra for.

Ah, also tell your kids to turn off their cell phones, no texting, and to pay attention while at work.  They are their for the benefit of their employer and not their hotty boy friend.  Don’t forget to arrive on time.  Employers don’t need to hear excuses because you didn’t plan accordingly to make it to your job when you should have been there.  There are plenty of other teenagers and even retired people who are anxious to fill your position.

And parents?  We already know that teenagers are already doing a great job trying to juggle hormone changes, body changes and dealing with school problems.  Don’t add to their issues by setting a crappy example with dealing with others.  Children and adults learn by example.  Remember to set a good example and then on top of that, set a better example. 

You will be remembered by your actions probably more than your words.  Trust me on that.

Happy Working!

March 31 2009 mid day

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Teaching Work Ethic To Teenagers and Children

Generic or Name Brand Goods

Sunday, September 7th, 2008

If you have children, you know that once they want something they see, it is pretty hard to change their minds.  Commericals are pretty quick and they try and pour a lot of information into selling you something in a very short amount of time.  Kids, who watch a lot of television or surf the net, see a lot of ads and some of them, especially if their peers are doing it, want to buy something.

If you are trying to save money, one of the little secrets that parents use is that they try to buy generic.  Oh, I am not talking about buying generic supermarket soda like Albertson’s brand instead of Coca Cola (though I drink both and have gotten my son to drink it as well).   I am talking more along the lines of getting a knock off designer knapsack for school or pair of shoes that aren’t $129 a pair.  Eventually, manufacturers will make similar products, or as much as they can skate patent or copyright infringement.  In some cases, kids will accept the product gladly.  In others, they may raise a stink.

If you have been teaching your kids good fundamental financial values and learning about money, that shouldn’t be a problem.  If you find yourself a slave to designer labels, maybe it is time that you go on a generic diet yourself to set an example for your kids.  If you don’t have kids and your job doesn’t depend on you dressing like a celebrity fashionista, I would say start saving money and go generic.

Some exceptions are in paper towels and toilet paper.  I am the first to admit that not all paper is the same and some is rougher than others.  Maybe you have some exceptions as well.  I am not asking you to go completely generic like in the old movie “Repo Man”, just be aware of what you are spending money on and ask yourself if you can get the same product or service for a cheaper price.

Kim Greenblatt Asks If You Teach Your Children About Money While They Are Young

Thursday, August 14th, 2008

Where do kids learn their first values about money? From mom and dad. Or from your baby’s mom, or your baby’s dad. Whoever. The people that will introduce a strong sense of monetary education into your kids at first will be you. What kind of example are you being for them?

Are you a saver? Have you shown them that they need to start saving money, even if it is with a piggy bank and just small change once a week?

Are you a spender? Do you buy everything you want, when you want it regardless of the cost? Do you end up charging up your credit cards in order to do that? Not a good idea. Do you want to have another generation of kids piling up debt?

I love America. I love the fact that capitalism is all over the globe. What I don’t love is the mass marketing and media shoving ads from the internet, from tv shows, from the radio from magazines trying to tell my kids what they “need” to have. They can get by on a lot less than they think they can and yes, like any devoted parent I want what is best for them but I would be doing my son a disservice by giving him everything he wants. In Arianna’s case, Arianna has Rett Syndrome, I am doing all that I can to make her life comfortable and help her develop her communication skills.

There is a difference between teaching children to be frugal and cheap. Frugal is where you save a little bit of money from each weekly allowance, paper route, usher job at the theater, etc. You put that into a savings account for something big later on. You get your children use to saving for emergencies and a rainy day. Cheap is not leaving a tip to a waiter or waitress at a restaurant who gave you great service. If they give you lousy service, you can teach your children at that point the value of good service by still leaving a tip, just a small one. They may not say anything but they will get the message.

Teach them about money to avoid gambling schemes as well.

Special needs kids can get the message too. They need to learn – and some learn it quite well and quickly – the need to price shop, to learn the difference in value with some items and to see through marketing at times.

If you are reading my blogs, I am sure you are teaching your kids the value of money. While you are at it, you may want to look into getting them a Roth IRA if they are working a part time job as well.
It doesn’t hurt to start their retirement while they are young.

If they have questions about money, please encourage them. Any ideas about making money also should be encouraged. If they want to start a part time business, do what you can to help them. You never know. They may become the next garage start-up billionaire.

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Kim Greenblatt

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